Services

Therapy for Grief, Trauma, Identity, and Life Transitions

People rarely come to therapy because a single, well-defined problem has arisen. More often, life becomes tangled.

Grief overlaps with anxiety.
Trauma affects relationships.
Burnout meets caregiving.
A life transition brings both possibility and loss.

Therapy can help you understand those connections and develop a clearer relationship with yourself, your experiences, and what comes next.

Grief & Loss Therapy

Grief is not limited to death.

You may be grieving:

  • the death of someone you love

  • an anticipated death or serious illness

  • divorce or the end of a relationship

  • estrangement from family

  • infertility or reproductive loss

  • the loss of a career or identity

  • changes in health or independence

  • the family you needed but did not have

  • the future you expected

  • loss connected to coming out or living authentically

Grief does not follow a predictable timeline, and there is no single “correct” way to experience it.

Therapy can help you understand your grief, make room for complicated emotions, and find ways to remain connected to what mattered while continuing to build a meaningful life.

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Complex Trauma

Trauma does not always come from one obvious catastrophic event.

Sometimes it develops through repeated experiences of fear, instability, abuse, neglect, rejection, coercion, discrimination, or relationships in which you had to constantly adapt to stay emotionally or physically safe.

Trauma-informed therapy may help you recognize survival patterns, understand triggers, improve emotional regulation, explore relationship patterns, and develop a greater sense of choice in how you respond today.

The goal is not to ask, “What is wrong with me?”

It is to better understand, “What happened—and what did I learn to do because of it?”

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Veterans, Military Culture & Military Sexual Trauma

Military experiences can affect identity, relationships, belonging, trust, grief, and the transition into civilian life.

Some experiences are particularly difficult to name or discuss because military culture can shape how trauma, masculinity, vulnerability, loyalty, hazing, and sexual violence are understood.

Dr. Catherine Revak is a United States Air Force veteran whose doctoral research examined male-on-male sexual assault, hazing, military discourse, and barriers to recognizing and responding to sexual trauma.

Therapy provides a confidential setting to explore these experiences without having to explain military culture from the beginning.

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LGBTQIA+ Affirming Therapy

Affirming therapy should involve more than saying, “Everyone is welcome.”

LGBTQIA+ clients may experience grief, family rejection, complicated relationships, discrimination, identity transitions, minority stress, religious trauma, or the loss of belonging that sometimes accompanies living more authentically.

Your identity does not need to be treated as a problem—and you should not have to educate your therapist before you can begin discussing the reason you came to therapy.

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Life Changes & Identity Transitions

Even positive change can be destabilizing.

Therapy may be helpful during:

  • divorce or separation

  • career changes

  • retirement

  • caregiving

  • relocation

  • changing family roles

  • coming out

  • major health changes

  • aging

  • becoming an empty nester

  • changes in relationships

  • transitions from military to civilian life

Sometimes the question is not simply, “How do I get through this?”

It is, “Who am I now?”

Therapy can help you explore that question.

What Therapy at Prism Is Like

Therapy with Cate is collaborative, relational, trauma-informed, and individualized.

Her work incorporates psychodynamic, narrative, and trauma-informed approaches while recognizing that no single method fits every person.

You are not expected to arrive with the right words or a perfectly organized story.

We begin with what feels most important now.

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“Is Prism Right for Me?”

Prism may be a good fit if you:

  • want therapy that is compassionate but not superficial

  • appreciate understanding why patterns developed

  • are navigating grief or a major transition

  • have experiences that do not fit neatly into one diagnosis

  • want LGBTQIA+ affirming care

  • are a veteran or military-connected

  • have complicated feelings about family or relationships

  • want therapy that makes room for humor, anger, grief, contradiction, and uncertainty

Prism may not be the right fit if you:

  • need medication management

  • require emergency/crisis treatment

  • are seeking a service Cate does not provide

  • live somewhere Cate cannot legally provide therapy

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Frequently Asked Questions